The Alpha-Male, Where Art Thou?

Alpha male (noun): The dominant member in a group of men. Holds strong influence over group activities. Has priority pick when it comes to sex with women

Oh, baby. Who doesn’t love an Alpha-male? He’s tall, elegant, classy, persuasive, in control of his environment and can bust some ass (not physically, but like a buyout or something). But he’s a mysterious creature. These days, our American culture has virtually crucified the Alpha male, who is usually seen as robust, muscular, with sharp facial features, hairy chest and dark, alluring eyes. Have you seen the ads lately? All beta men—smaller, feminine, more passive.

Every man wants to be an Alpha Male, but few are chosen. Bill Clinton is the poster boy for the modern Alpha Male. Donald Trump, Puff, CEOs, Executive VPs, and the like may be Alpha males. George W Bush is not an Alpha Male.

Back to the mystery. These men are hard to contain. Hard dogs to keep on the porch. But they’re providers and find meaning in their role as men, and need a woman who can compliment his role. He’s not the typical man. Alphas can be quiet (some can be very boisterous), reserved, loners, and disconnected. They are best when they are asked to lead at work, at home, etc. Another thing about Alpha males is that they don’t talk a lot. When he talks, people listens because it's important. He believes, that no matter how confident and assertive a woman appears, she can never be more of a man than he is. An Alpha male is not intimidated—at all. He welcomes it.

When I spot an Alpha-male, I can smell his unique pheromones from feet away. I stand taller, I walk differently, and I feel totally vulnerable. My eggs are spinning wanting to jump out at him for fertilization. Instant fertilization. I want to be conquered. That’s what an Alpha male can do.

What the Alpha Male loves among a few other things, is the Alpha female. She’s the one who protects the genetic integrity of her gene pool. He gets that. He understands her mating needs for a virile, protective, financially secure male. She understands the value of success not only at home, but in business, for that is what she cares mostly about, it is what makes her love her Alpha Male, and he knows this. The drive, the passion, the goals is what he feeds off. It’s the oil in his motor. In the mating process, the Alpha Male, when there is no Alpha Female (because they are few) will choose what’s left. He’s okay with quantity over quality. Puffy. Check. Donald Trump. Check. Can have several women throughout his life, give birth to his progeny, but if with one woman, he may want several children. I call it “super sperm”. Men, who feel their sperm has that “specialness”. You may call it “horny”. But it’s deeper than that. The Alpha Female’s role is to crush her female competition and get the Alpha Male to accept her for “genetic monogamy.” Now, how 'ya like that?