I gathered some thoughts from the girls over at Baller Alert as to how they felt about being submissive to a man, particularly a baller. A baller, in this context, is a man of money, prestige, and status. There were over 50 comments, but I was surprised to see some that really agreed with the concept of a man being THE MAN. Many women are afraid to voice their desire to be submissive, or out of fear push it away, but there are still some who want to be and own it. Take a look:--I have this type of relationship...one of a deep trust. He is a natural leader, a protector, a provider, a real man; he handles his business, sexes me crazy and takes care of home. I respect him, love him & treat him like a king. He has proven his dedication to me; and in return I listen to him, I do what he asks of me; and rarely question him, or argue - because I know he has our best interest at heart...I have never been loved so completely by a man... It is difficult to explain...
--I think deep down a lot of women are tired of having to play both roles when it comes to relationships. And the women who do find themselves alone for the most part....
--If I'm ever in a long-term relationship again, this is what I want. I've always been attracted to the dominant alpha-male who knows how to handle himself and me. I know I haven't found him yet because lately all that I've run across I'm running over....
--...this is the type of man I would want to have, but like I said before... If he is to lead, he has to know how to lead, have a plan, and the means to get us there.
--I have only met one man that I would be submissive to and I fought him all the way. He was a good man and if I'd made different choices then maybe I would be a happier person today.
That's all.
8 comments:
I can't see it... LOL
I can, and I think this is the natural order of things, too many women, too many degrees, too little options, a man like this would give me a chance to be myself. you gotta be this kind of woman naturally, no? it has to be already in me, and it is...
I really liked the guy said about the educated bottom chick, that is REAL. Don't blame black men, if you have trust issues. Check yaself ladies!
Hey Diane Clarke, here are something’s I have noticed as a black male and maybe this statement can help. Black women who are highly educated and advance further in life generally have fewer options. However, I have notice the bigger problem is that black women take their strength and fight they need for work into the home. Which is bad because they way you have to act at work should not be the way you act at home since being black at work you face struggles for being a women and black at the work place. Taking this mind set home leads to clashes since the women will still be fighting her man for power as if she at work with her king. This will push any man away good or bad. These are just my views sorry for those who don’t agree or are offended.
I LOVE THE FIRST COMMENT! I WANT A MAN LIKE THAT TOO! WOW.
I too think I coulda been happier if i just stopped fighting and doubting. the next man is gonna be lucky.
This is a great blog post so was the other one, I mean, I dont see this topic alot around its always about complaining women about men cheating, cant find a man, yada yada, this is interesting. hmmmm...
Beyonce and JayZ got a relationship like this it was a blind item in the NY Daily News...
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