I didn't know how to articulate this, but I had these thoughts for a while. I've always heard about it like a whisper in the wind. That having sex without a condom is signifying one is ready for the next step in the relationship. How dumb. It signifies that you are ready for a disease or a child. I am also torn between whether condom use should continue in marriage. Of course, when you're married you should be in a monogamous relationship, but if a wife feels her husband is out there, start wearing condoms again, especially if you continue to have sex with him. It's a given, because having an affair isn't always neat and nice. The only people who should be having sex with no condoms are those who are in a monogamous MARRIED relationship. If you live together and it's all good, you should still wear one. This may make you walk down the aisle a lot quicker, too ;)
See the article on NPR.
Crazy times...
7 comments:
i always thought it meant he loved me more; now i got 2 kids!
I only do this with my woman if we have been together for some time. I dont want to use condoms any longer than a year with someone.
IT IS WRONG! I will never let a man do that to me. It is selfish. Condoms all the way until the BIG DAY!
Nice photo! I was like...what now? LOL Another McCain ad?
It is a shame how alot of women think a man loves them more because they are having unprotected sex. There are way too much STDS out here!
And way too much people who are unaware of they danger or responsibilities it can cause.
@adriane, I agree. Too bad, not enough women know what real love feels and looks like. They only equate love to sex.
There are so many myths people believe about love because they are so empty.
Lets talk about bring old school sex education back. Lets talk to women, men and young people about condoms, std's contraceptives and the whole package.
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